Renewing Personal Energy
Recommendations from HBR Authors Tony Schwartz and Catherine McCarthy
| Physical Energy |
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| Emotional Energy |
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| Mental Energy |
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| Spiritual Energy |
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Comments from Luncheon Attendees
What do you do that you love? What lifts your energy? What inspires you?
- I try to spend as much time as possible doing the things I love -- family, friends, music; life is too short
- Getting back to nature
- Relationships; family & friends; pets; connections to others
- Physical exercise; dancing
- Enjoying simple things in life
- Realizing what is really important vs. material things and jobs
- Helping others, both personally and with business services
- Sleeping
- Reading
- Massages; yoga
- Other people inspire us
- Love to challenge myself
- Give the gift of making people feel good about themselves
- Find your own personal strengths - do what you love and you're good at
How do you know when you’re “out of balance?” What do you do in the moment to correct it, acknowledge it or get past it?
Out of balance clues:
- Recognize internal frenzy
- Feel down
- Get forgetful
- Let the house go
- Wheels stop turning - we stop moving forward
- Don't feel like talking - even to best friend
- Become inwardly focused - "all about me"
- Don't care about the things I usually care about (eating right, interacting with people)
- Don't want to get out of bed
Steps to take:
- Stop and breathe
- Journal: write down emotions and how you deal with things that are out of balance
- Make lists to assist in getting control
- Women experience ups and downs - understand it and expect it instead of feeling weaker for it
- Split the things to be done into this grid: I want to | I don't want to ||| I have to | I don't have to
- Be thankful for blessings
- Make conscious choice to be happy
- Accept that you can only control your own response, not anyone else's
- Don't let roadblocks stop you from loving life
- Sleep helps
- You get what you give
- I can change my ___ -- remember that you have a choice
- Left brain, right brain exercises
What is one thing you already do, or can add easily, to “feed” each energy body: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual?
- Exercise
- Set a time limit on being "down"
- Help others
- Create your own mood music playlist to return to when you need it
- Walk with friends
- Meditate
- Make time for self
- Prayer
- Hang out with kids
- Be engaged with other people
- Spend time with positive people
- Appreciate what is working wholeheartedly
- When things get done, check them off and enjoy the sense of accomplishment
- Celebrate
- Conscious reflection
- Set tone for the day when the day begins
